Out of the sudden, I got the idea of the 3 As from the 3 Cs. As an improvement from the previous teachings… I have learned that the 3Cs are those we need to avoid.
Criticize
Definition
1 : to consider the merits and demerits of and judge accordingly : evaluate
2 : to find fault with : point out the faults of
Everyone have a ruler in their heart and mind. Judging it from our perspective, we should refrain from criticizing too much. Guess that this happens when we watched too much American Idol eh?
Complain
Defintion
1. to express dissatisfaction, pain, uneasiness, censure, resentment, or grief; find fault: He complained constantly about the noise in the corridor.
2. to tell of one’s pains, ailments, etc.: to complain of a backache.
3. to make a formal accusation: If you think you’ve been swindled, complain to the police.
It is common that we tend to ended up in frustration all the time. Be it at school, college, work or even at home. If we were spend too much of time complaining, what can we do?
Condemn
Definition
1. To express strong disapproval of: condemned the needless waste of food.
2. To pronounce judgment against; sentence: condemned the felons to prison.
3. To judge or declare to be unfit for use or consumption, usually by official order: condemn an old building.
4. To lend credence to or provide evidence for an adverse judgment against: were condemned by their actions.
5. Law. To appropriate (property) for public use.
Ok. Do condemn comment … enough said
So what is with the 3 As? I have no idea where that come from but just I felt that I need to share this out.
taken from wiki :-
An assertive style of behavior is to interact with people while standing up for your rights. Being assertive is to one’s benefit most of the time but it does not mean that one always gets what he/she wants. The result of being assertive is that
1. you feel good about yourself
2. other people know how to deal with you and there is nothing vague about dealing with you.
Attentive – 2 ears 1 mouth. Enough said?
Adaptive – the harder you pull the rubber band, it will no longer go back to its normal form if you hit the threshold of the elasticity.
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