He Who Cheat
She once told me that by getting married to someone is as good as granting the license for him to officially cheat. She was referring to infidelity and extra marital affairs.
Tiger Woods did it.
Jack Neo did it.
Jackie Chan did it.
Chua Soi Lek did it.
Cecilia Cheung did it.
TWINS – Gillian did it.
And the list goes on. It doesn’t seems to stop. Endless. My question was is our perspective towards relationship changed? Are we no longer have faith and belief in the word “Monogamy”? That the she or he is your one and only one?
We human being are weak. Therefore it is only a matter of when before he or she finds someone they think are more compatible and can get more sexual excitement or pleasures. Sometimes, it could purely just ego. I can’t be sure of.
Why we want to sign the marriage paper at the first place? It is because we are committing to the someone we care. Not because they are perfect or what. There will always be someone who is better than this person. Grass is always greener on the other side. Yet the reason we commit to one and another is because we love them for who they are. It is because of the imperfectness they had; that we can bear with it. That we want that particular person to spend the rest of our lives with.
Another friend said maybe because we haven’t found yet. When we do, things will fall in place. By itself. Naturally.
Infidelity
So the question is, “can we prevent cheating from happening?”
Sad to say there is no guarantee or definite answer. First of all is to have a moral compass. You follow your north sign. Don’t just jump into the bandwagon when everyone around you is womanizer and you just go along with the flow. I would say, “f*ck the flow… have it your way”
Secondly, continue to communicate with one and another. Put down your ego. There’s no room for ego in the relationship.
Is he cheating? Is she?
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