Is Sending Away A Right Choice?
Today I dropped by to uncle place. Again, I posted the same question when my visit to the place. Uncle told me that this time around my two lovely nieces are going to Bukit Mertajam. The last time I checked was they were sent to my cousin place. The reason was their grandparents want them to go far away from home. Simply because they don’t want their grandchild to go to their mom place often. Moreover none can manage these kids.
Now, they (my uncle and aunt) wanted to relocate two of my nieces to study in Bukit Mertajam. The reason given was that these nieces of mine can’t study as long as they are in KL. Bullshit! The are few other reasons and I know exactly what is in their mind. They want to send them away from KL so that the kids can’t meet up with their mother. Yes. The parents are separated. Secondly, no one is managing the well-being of these kids. Everyone is busy with their own things. Not even the parents.
Coming to that question I posed earlier, that the action of sending them away does not bring just. In fact, by now it is too late to undo and undone what has been a lifestyle. The way of living, passed on by my uncle and aunt has deeply rooted in these kids. It might take some time for my cousin to nurture them well. In which, I have my own sharers doubt.
The discussion I had earlier at Stevie’s place was essence of this incident. The home was not a right environment to grow in. The foundation, the base was screwed. You cannot blame the kids for not able to study or doesn’t want to study. They are what they are today because of the actions the parents, the grandparents and everyone around them instill. What they are today is the byproduct of the actions accumulated along the way.
I don’t know what the kids are thinking but I think I need to spend some time with them. I love them so dearly to think they are being ignored of their feelings.
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