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Just returned from Kota Tinggi, Johor. I was there for a 3D2N function, which is the annual thing. It is just like going back home. Except some of the familiar faces are not seen.
I learned a lot from this trip. Directly and indirectly. Having the stressful work over the past week, a short break should be able to allow me to regenerate to deal with the upcoming tenders submission. When it comes to the handling problems in life, we all need to learn to be a problem solver. Be it work related, financial or in relationship wise, we need to be able to solve problem. I guess that’s why certain people are being paid well. That because they solve other people’s shits and problems.
Through this time I learned that everyone have their own perceptions and the way they see things. Usually due to their past experiences as well as the people they mix with. For example, when Boon Siong shared the story of the sand and pearl, it dawned to me that everyone have their own perceptions. They draw up their own conclusions based on what they can comprehend and understand.
There are times in life when we all need to make our own choices. It can be hard to decide for own life and what if it is other people’s life? When these people put their faith and trust in you, how can you be sure that you did not make a wrong decision along the way? Hence I told myself that life is a composition of a series of life choices we make. There are times it is up, and there are times things are getting down.
Hence the first trial I got was when I reached back to KL to collect my car, was that my car was full of scratches. It was a deep cut here and there. My initial thought was the kids that got the markings there. I was pretty pissed off that it happens to me. I got to repaint my entire car and this cost me a hefty sum. Yes, I told myself that there is nothing can be undone. I made the choice to leave my car there 3 days ago. Now, I can only live up to it.
I cannot change the fact that is has been done but I can always change my mind how to react to it. Just like the other time when few of us went for the Cameron trip. Our dear friend make a mistake of booking the room few days later, yet we still accept the fact that things happened. There is no point to be upset and angry from that point onwards. We all manage to put it behind and scramble to look for room for a stay overnight.
That’s why I think the attitude is fairly important. The attitude sets your altitude. “In Everything Gives Thanks” is the famous quote from a friend of mine, Grace.
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