Mar 30, 2010

When You Confess

frostier / Thoughts, Rants and Musings / Confession, love, relationship / 1 Comment

What do you expect in return? Are you prepared for it?

In between here and then, often we get different responses from the targeted audience. When it happens, it entire things just shifted itself to another different level of playing ground. It will no longer be the same. It leaves a mark from there onwards.

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When you confess that you love the person, was it a declaration? Or was it some action that you plan to reap from? Let just say that when you confessed to the person, are you expecting the person to react the same by returning the favor. After that particular exchange of confessions were done, the next step to follow through is to seek for the approval to be the person “girlfriend/boyfriend”?

When the person whom confessed getting a rejection, will he/she felt embarrassed by the entire incident that indirectly hurting the ego of the person? The things that matter now is nothing but a plain sight of reciprocate that leads the entire relationship downwards to blow.

How to deal with it becomes something pretty tactful to say the least. Once you said it, there is no going backwards. The person might felt offended because when you said it, it is just because you will feel good after the confession. You feel that you have drop the bomb. It is over. The ball is now over to the other party. How would the other party feel? That you being selfish when the person is not even ready yet for any commitment or he/she wasn’t getting into you yet.

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When a person tell you before hand that whether they still can remained as friends, it was a sign. That the person is just not into you and the person was thinking about the negative side of it even when it haven’t started. Was it the beginning of failed relationship? Beats me.

If the person did not confess and kept it inside within thus had no chances to know whether things will work out or not. Given the situation, it was best to keep it within the person. You should never confess anytime too soon. Having patience is the key. Relationship are built over time. Over the time spent together. Never spoil the moments by making confession too early without able to gauge the reaction of the other party.

After all, in the end you still manage to keep a friend.

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